How many times in life do we hear that someone did not know that someone was like this or that. If someone didn’t know he was cheated. Deceived. That someone didn’t recognize that he was living with a psychopath. How many times do we hear other people’s ravings about some knowledge that seems so foreign, but in fact, it is not.
Blindness is a term we often use as an excuse because we didn’t want to see in time. Blindness is a term we often use when we try to justify ourselves and our belated knowledge about someone.
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That term we use when we try not to appear naive, even though we already are. Deep down we know that it is easier to say “I didn’t know he was like that” than to try to see through it in time.
We even tend to justify ourselves by comforting ourselves that there were no “signals” that would point to something. And there were. Sometimes even to excess.
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Often people say that their relationship was good and they don’t know what suddenly happened. The marriage was perfect until one morning. Your partner loved you until one day.
The man with whom you just started a story, wrote to you just yesterday. And nothing, ever, indicated any problems, until today. Until now. Until this cold snap. Until this break. Until this break. Until these divorce papers.
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Really? In what parallel universe do relationships fall apart just like that? In what universe do years of marriage mean nothing? In what universe did it all work fantastically well and disappear overnight?
In what universe does the strong attraction suddenly stop? One loses interest. And it gets colder than you, as if it were a freezer?
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In what parallel universe is someone shocked by divorce papers? If it’s in yours, then change the universe. The galaxy. The path. And above all, change yourself.
You understand: there are no changes that happen overnight. There are only changes that you ignored, didn’t give importance to, or didn’t want to accept.
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People don’t cool down like a broken freezer overnight. Partners don’t just leave. Relationships don’t explode all at once. Divorces are not events, situations or problems, divorces are processes. As well as separations. Farewells. And everything you refuse to give a real name to.
Too many times I have heard people say “Everything was perfect until now, I don’t know what happened all of a sudden…”.
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The real truth is that a lot of things were not even close to perfection, and a lot of things “happened” for months, years, and sometimes even decades.
But then why did it happen? It happened because – we didn’t feel like it.
Sometimes, we really have a hard time opening our eyes. Looks. Emotions. Intuition. Sometimes, really, it’s too hard to face ourselves with everything that happens.
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Sometimes, indeed, we pretend too much perfection. In a world that is often falling apart before our eyes, we look in the opposite direction. Because it’s easier that way.
We have become accustomed to “shocks”, dramas, negations of reality. We pretend to build relationships, and then we turn out to be building towers of cards because, it collapsed overnight, didn’t it?
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And did it really collapse or were we not even building? Did we really have good foundations or were we building in the air? Is it our fault or did it just crash? It just crashed. The others crashed, didn’t they? Because people simply like to “mine” other people’s fields, relationships, foundations… No.
In the following days, realizations begin. Reflections. Games. Double solutions. Get out. Moves. Some stories are starting to circulate. Some truths and lies. Some plots and highlights.
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Some guessing dramas begin: who is to blame and why? Because, of course, we never are.
The double voices in your head start. Glances in the mirror. Multiple appearances of the same people. They start lying to themselves, which has been going on for too long. So, paradoxically. As only we know… because now when a system collapse happens “overnight”, someone has to be to blame. And we certainly aren’t. And then what should we do?
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If you can’t open your third eye, can you at least open the other two?
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