Ricardo, 54 years old who has a transport company and Dori, 51 years old and real estate advisor, have had an appointment at our restaurant de ‘First Dates’, where first impressions marked the rest of the appointment.
Dori and Ricardo’s date
He explained that with his partners he has always been “clingy” and he loves pampering: “I’ve always liked it, for me that’s essential in a couple.” And he is ready to have someone by his side again: “I miss the affection of my better half.” The one who is looking for a woman who is a “good person” and who “takes care of herself”, as well as being active in sex: “It is very important.”
“The first impression is what matters and it wasn’t very good,” he reacted when he saw his date, which seemed to happen to her too: “I didn’t like it at all, “I like men taller than me and he is my height, the first impression has not been positive.”
Although they both shared conversations and talked about their lives, they began to realize that there was no ‘feeling’ between them. And, she realized that Ricardo “needs the support of a constant woman,” something that “doesn’t go with her” because he wants “an independent person at his side and respects everyone’s spaces.” Although Dori also confessed to being “in love”, but increasingly “more select”.
They both had several threads to pull to discover the connection between them, but they preferred to listen to their instincts since they knew each other. When talking about sex, hobbies and other important topics on a first date, they were not open with each other.
He I discovered that Dori is a smoker and he didn’t like this at all: “I couldn’t have a partner who smells of tobacco when it comes to being next to her.” Ricardo confessed himself to be “anti-smoking” and our waitress Laura He pointed out something about this: “Through love everything can be changed, you can try.”
The final decision
They were both quite clear about the final decision they were going to make throughout the appointment. He began speaking: “I wouldn’t like to have a second date“I see you as a very good girl, but tobacco has put me off and I haven’t felt what I should feel in a relationship.” Which she confirmed: “Me neither, I think you depend too much on a person by your side and “There hasn’t been that ‘feeling’ that there should have been either.”
Source: www.cuatro.com