Expectations can destroy a relationship: A few important DON’Ts for a successful relationship

Of course it is important to have expectations. But in a large number of situations, in the relationship with loved ones, the problem is expectations that are not particularly achievable.

It would be nice if we could get everything we wanted and imagined. But, unfortunately, this is mostly not possible, when we talk about unrealistic expectations, it is not possible at all.

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Here are a few “NO” expectations and actions that I have noticed lately, which disrupt love relationships.

Don’t fall for her/him, it’s enough that she/he is good for you.

Don’t seduce, be who you are.

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Don’t read “between the lines” and don’t interpret “signals”, ask and ask for an explanation.

Don’t expect him to know what you need, openly say what you need.

Don’t expect him/her to cut the most important people out of his/her life because they bother you, one day you might bother him/her too.

Don’t ask him to fulfill all your expectations, it’s enough that he fulfills the most important ones.

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Don’t ask her/him to be more important than others, it’s enough to be important in a special way.

Don’t expect him to love all your friends and family members, it’s enough for him to accept that you love them.

Don’t expect him to change because of you, be an example of how changes are made.

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Do not expect him to fully understand you, it is enough for him to accept things as they are.

Don’t expect him/her to love every part of you unconditionally, it is enough that you mean to him/her even though you are not “perfect”.