“Time is of the essence for parents, especially on vacation,” says Kristen Chase, author of The Mommynatrik’s Guide to Sex: A No-Surrender Advice Book for Naughty Moms.
“Why not get together in the bath or shower and kill two birds with one stone?” Bring along a discreet, travel-sized vibrator and your kids will really think it’s bath time for you and daddy.
Every time you go on vacation, the inevitable question always arises: “Do we really need to bring a Pack ‘n Play?” Oh, yes, you know! It makes the game a lot easier for you and your man when you comfortably transport the baby to another nearby location. Place the Pack ‘n Play in the bathroom and place the baby in it. (Note: Never leave pillows, blankets, or soft toys in the Pack ‘n Play with sleeping or unattended babies.) Place the baby monitor on the bathroom sink and place the receiver on the nightstand in the bedroom. Then you can play like in the old days.
When you co-sleep with your child, sharing a bed with three can get in the way of a much-needed two. For a happy change of place, hit the floor! “Sex can be a challenge when you have a junior sharing a pillow with you,” says Chase. “So the floor can be a hot alternative, especially since waking up a baby can be an instant mood killer. Before you go, cover your space with couch cushions, extra pillows or a quilt. You don’t need a carpet abrasion next to a sunburn!
Whether you’re on a cruise ship or in a hotel room with your sleeping children, the balcony is often the easiest place to go without leaving your room. (Just make sure you leave the door open and bring the baby monitor, if you use one, with you.) Plus, there’s the added thrill of someone sneaking a peek or catching you. “There’s nothing like a little playful exhibitionism to get the pulse racing,” says Ian Kerner, Ph.D., author of She Comes First, He Comes Second. “Whether or not someone else is actually watching is not as important as the idea that someone might be watching.
Most hotels and resorts offer babysitting or babysitting services. Use it to your advantage, even if it’s expensive. Just one unforgettable evening can fill the entire trip. “Sometimes you have to be a little selfish about your relationship,” says Kerner. “A family vacation should not exclude romance. If the babysitter is in your room, take advantage of the alone time and go to the car. Place a towel over the windshield and windows for privacy, then slide into the back seat—it’ll feel like a high school reunion. Take a picnic blanket from the trunk and cover the back seat. Or hop in the passenger seat and give your man a ride with some girl-on-top action.
Let your children “camp” in a tent in your room. They’ll think it’s fun — and the sound of the unbuckling will give you enough warning to stop whatever stupid things you and your partner are up to. “Fasts don’t have to involve full intercourse or even orgasm,” says Kerner. “A little bit of playing can go a long way in getting you there.” So forget about going all the way; just enjoy rounding the bases and groping each other (quietly!) under the covers while the kids sleep.
Put the kids in a double stroller, grab a blanket and head to the beach around dusk. As you cruise along the beach, look for discreet, off-limits areas and park there. Turn the stroller towards the sea (make sure you’re away from the water, of course!) and get cozy next to your man with a blanket wrapped around you. While the kids are napping in the stroller, feel each other under the blanket as you watch the waves roll in on the shore. “Combine the romantic moment with the right quick outfit, like a comfortable beach dress without underwear to amp up the excitement,” says Kerner. Just wait to do it until you get back to your room – then park the stroller in the corner or the bathroom and hit the sheets. If the kids wake up at an inopportune moment, you can pull yourself together (or separate – whatever!) and claim that the walk put both you and dad to sleep.
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