Your relationship is over, you got confirmation of it in these months of forced isolation and now you are wondering if there is a way to leave your partner without him or you suffering (too much).
Is it possible to do that? The answer is yes if you can no longer bear to share your partner relationship and the home you live in, and the quarantine made you (or just helped you) realize that you were not born for each other, or simply that your paths diverged and each he should continue on his way.
Considering that (a little, still…) both of you will suffer (regardless of the fact that there is no more love between you, habit works wonders and binds stronger than any force), but that you do it in order to be happier. Both.
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If you accompany his every gesture with boredom or impatience, it seems that you can no longer tolerate even the way he walks or talks, you hardly need to doubt anymore whether you should break up or not.
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In short, if after quarantine you want to end this relationship and give yourself space to breathe fully, regain your social life and above all your cheerfulness, we help you understand what steps you need to take now to leave your partner on (almost ) painless way. Or at least as painless as possible for both.
Don’t feel guilty about what is happening. Even if your partner is the best person in the world, it does not mean that he is the best person for you.
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Days in quarantine open your eyes and you become aware of something that has been in the air for some time, brewing, and now it just materialized.
If you think that after returning to a normal daily rhythm – maybe, maybe – your level of tolerance towards your partner will magically change, you are right.
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By continuing work and daily activities, your mind will be hyper-stimulated again and this will distract you from the love relationship you are currently in. But are you sure you want to stay in a couple under these conditions?
Don’t put off for the umpteenth time what you’ve known for a long time that you have to do, you both deserve to be genuinely happy.
If you are not satisfied, you can see and hear.
Do not think that your partner has not noticed this or that he is calm in the relationship (just the opposite of you). Feelings of annoyance, disappointment, guilt or discomfort are bulky guests (like an elephant in the house) who feel more uncomfortable than ever.
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If you think that everything is dark and normal to him and that he didn’t notice anything, he is probably just buying time or just denying reality to avoid facing it (that is, you).
In order to have proof that you need to take it a step further, you need to talk about what’s going on.
Talking about how you feel doesn’t mean packing your bags and leaving, also because – given the restrictions – it’s not the time for that.
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But talking about what you’re experiencing can pave the way for constructive confrontation that will help you separate (painfully) when it’s possible to go your separate ways.
In order to better bear the parting tomorrow, you must act today.
Source: www.sitoireseto.com
