Do you want to clear any doubts? Here’s how to know if you’re really in love.
Understanding whether you are truly in love is not always easy. When the butterflies in the stomach stir and mix with the unexplained flood of emerging emotions, it’s really not easy to distinguish what it’s really about. Sometimes there are doubts, conflicts, fears and questions that seem to slow down the stirring of butterflies in the stomach known from adolescence (And then we knew, didn’t we?! Everything was much easier then! Because we didn’t think, we just felt!) that we have every time we fall in love.
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He matches what you were looking for, but there are things that make you doubt your love.
And what if it’s just something passing? Again. Or is it love and you’re just afraid?
Here’s how to know if you’re really in love or not.
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If Cupid hit the target, your mind will already be fantasizing about future joint projects.
A small digression, not to mention the movies that have been playing in your head since the first date where you see yourself at the altar with the new one. This does not mean that, but here we mean concrete things, planned things, which you share with your partner and which you feel you want to live only with him. Deep, true, actually.
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Imagine yourself in five years: are you still together?
But on earth! Another proof that you will understand if you are really in love is to listen to yourself how you feel when you are together.
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If you are in love, you will feel free to reveal your true self in front of him. You will easily overcome the initial shyness the first few times and will be ready to make a compromise so that your partner gets to know you better. Simply, you will let all the clamps, masks and fences fall from you. You will let go and surrender to him.
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The most difficult things will become easier because you will feel the other person as your happy island, support, safe zone, where you can take refuge whenever you feel the need.
Another clue that will make you realize that you are in love is related to your thoughts.
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If you’re working and thinking about him, if you need to eat, but decide to skip a meal because you have a meeting, or just take two bites, just so you don’t get upset, because that’s not music to his ears that you want him to remember you by, if you see something and find in it an association with your story, if every song resonates like a dedication, then yes, you are definitely in love.
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Also, if you walk past Brad Pitt and don’t notice, this will remove any doubt, you are in the tunnel of love.
It’s time to stop asking what-if questions?!
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You use your head too much, and when it comes to matters of the heart, there is little that can be rationalized and explained.
If you feel mixed emotions but don’t know how to judge if it’s love, that’s perfectly fine.
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The labels you stick on this questionnaire are not important, but what you feel. Don’t force anything. Just relax and let go. The answers will come on their own.
Source: www.sitoireseto.com
