Love or just sex: You will recognize it like this


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It’s hard to tell the difference between whether you’re someone’s crush or they just like to make the bed with you. This is usually a challenge at the very beginning of a relationship, when many things still seem vague, although it is not uncommon for things to be quite undefined for years.

If you have been seeing a person with whom you have an intimate relationship for some time, it is very possible that you are looking for signs that can reveal to you whether you are just someone with whom they have fantastic sex or you actually mean something to them. If you need help clarifying, there are a few main differences between love and sex.

If you have sex every time you see each other – it’s just sex

Is your phone littered with messages in which your partner writes how much he wants you and how he can’t wait to see you in his bed? If all his efforts to see you are reduced to the bed, the floor or any other place for sex, it is not difficult to conclude that you are actually just someone he calls in situations when he wants to satisfy his desire for sex.

If you spend the weekend together without sex – that’s love

Far from the absence of sex means that love is present. But if sex is not a priority, but other things are included in the story like making dinner together, movie marathon, talking for hours, it shows that they care about getting to know you and not just want you in a horizontal position.

If he is delighted with the fact that he can satisfy you – it’s just sex

Although men who don’t care about the girls they have sex with only think about their own pleasure, there are also those smart enough to know that when things get hot enough with you, it automatically means more pleasure for both parties. Therefore, you should not confuse the fact that he wants to give you pleasure with love.

If he likes to cuddle with you – that’s love

Instead of counting how many times you have given pleasure to your partner and how many times they have given you pleasure, pay attention to the fact that they like being in your arms and how gentle they are when they touch you. If after sex he stays in bed and continues to caress and kiss you gently, it means that he is not done with you, after the end.

He pays you compliments that aren’t – that’s just sex

If a guy compliments you on how good you look in bed and how he likes your body, he’s not talking about you and that he loves you, but about your body. Such compliments are devastating and you should not confuse them with the real compliments that a man gives when he is really in love.

He gives you compliments that are not related to your body – that’s love

Whether you are in the bedroom or outside, a man who has feelings for you will tell you that he loves you, that he likes your closeness, that he is delighted by your smile, adventurous spirit and the like. He will also point out that he likes your spontaneity, sincerity, and faithfulness.


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