LOYALTY disappears – here’s how (and why) to keep it in a relationship

If the word faithfulness makes you smile just when you say it, you are definitely in tune with the times we live in.

In fact, fidelity now seems like something rare and elusive. Some fictitious concept.

Couples are breaking up more and more often, and fidelity conceived as a one-way love for a person is becoming a choice more and more distant from today’s times.

The forms of love that seem most modern are those that leave people free to fall in love several times at the same time or to have sexual experiences with more than one person.

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This is why choices such as polyamory or an open relationship are increasingly popular.

We explain why loyalty disappears and how to keep it.

Loyalty is not an obligation, but it benefits both.

Being faithful means choosing one person for a relationship and not intending to consider others.

It is a conscious choice that excludes others such as the world of free sex.

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For many, this is not a sacrifice, but, on the contrary, a natural and spontaneous choice dictated by feelings for someone and the absence of other interests.

For some, however, it can become a source of stress and anxiety because it is perceived as a limit to freedom.

Subjective needs are always at stake, people’s stories are complex and full of nuances that differ from each other.

However, there is a universal truth: we all need inner security.

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We all want something or someone who can make us feel safe, comfortable and make the nights restful.

Faithfulness reflects exactly this need, a person is more self-confident and therefore happier.

Maintaining the value of loyalty can be easy if you are naturally predisposed to it.

For example, people who know how to establish relationships of trust, who put down roots, who believe in permanence and continuity, will also be more inclined to establish a relationship where there is fidelity.

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If you want someone faithful, you must first of all know him: what does he believe in? What are its values? How do you live relationships?

Trust your instincts, your most faithful companion.