Many women HATE online dating and find the idea of meeting a man through an app completely unnatural.
If you’re not comfortable with technology, don’t take good photos of yourself, or prefer to trust your instincts about potential partners, Camilla Virginia’s book The Offline Dating Method: How to Attract a Great Guy in the Real World will come in handy.
Through training, courses and workshops, Kamil has helped women in over 100 countries learn how to attract men – and enjoy life more in general.
Here is a sample of the practical advice she gives in her book.
One of the things that women struggle with the most when meeting a man is how to start a conversation.
When I was filming I would like to meet, a dating show I did for the BBC, I would host a woman hoping to “buy” a man. This involved us both going somewhere, like a bar or a crowded place, drinking a lot and me teaching her how to flirt in a real life situation.
For most women, the hardest part was chatting with a stranger.
Here’s Kamila’s take on how to do it.
Choose the approach that suits you best and that suits your situation.
Maybe put your umbrella over someone else if you’re standing in the rain, maybe hold a door open, or pick up something someone dropped.
You can never go wrong with a random act of kindness.
“Nice watch/shirt/socks/bag”
“Great shirt. Where did you get it?’
It’s a non-threatening way to start a conversation that won’t offend anyone.
When you hear an interesting conversation in public, feel free to join in – as long as you stay positive.
Give the other person space and see if they engage you.
Suggest a great food order if you’re standing next to an attractive man at your local takeaway who just asked the clerk “What’s good?”.
See a guy struggling to do something on his phone? Provide assistance.
You are in transport, at a traffic light, in a store, anywhere and something happens and everyone who witnessed that event looks at each other with the expression: “Did anyone else just see that?”.
Maintain eye contact with the person you want to talk to and say it out loud. “Did you just see that?”
Sipping coffee and sitting next to something sweet? Scroll through the news and find an item that most people would know about.
Then say something to yourself out loud to that effect, for example, “They just found a missing hiker, alive!”
Turn to the person next to you and say: “Excuse me! But isn’t that great news?!”
This approach is just one word and four quick steps: catch the person’s eye, smile at them, say “Hello” and then go back to doing whatever you were doing.
It’s a flashing green light for him to approach you.
‘What are you drinking?’
„Margarita.“
“Oh, is he okay?”
‘Yes, let me buy you your first margarita’
At a charity event: “What is your connection to the cause”
At the party: “How do you know the birthday boy?”
It’s an oldie but a goodie – plus it forces him to look at you and weigh you up. And if you make a couple of poses… there’s a conversation.
On the bus: “Can you tell me the next stop?”
At the bar: “Could you ask the bartender for a glass of water, please?”
In the elevator: “Can you press the tenth floor button for me?”
If you want to create an instant connection with someone, say something that will make them smile.
Be creative!
Smile at random people, give a compliment, or make a funny observation out loud to no one in particular but within arm’s reach of the person you like.
Join Camila’s FREE Offline Dating Challenge: 3 Days to a Hot Date in the Real World.
Would you be so kind as to take me a cigar to the third floor?
Source: www.sitoireseto.com
