As much as orgasms are a real treat in one way or another, it would be nice if we managed to reach one during sexual intercourse with our partner, when he can do it so easily.
So the point of this article is to help women raise their orgasm quota shamelessly high, using a combination of techniques that hit both sides of the hot spot, both external and internal.
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Let’s raise the stakes and attack this problem with two fronts, words and action. To begin with, let’s dispel the myths and let the partner in the secret entrance. Let’s say, the one whose penis is the almighty Superman. Because…to put it mildly, that’s not the case.
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Let’s be honest. If you can climax during sex only if he caresses your clitoris or uses a vibrator, tell him so openly.
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Explain to him that it is not his fault, but that many women, including you, are simply like that. It is a matter of biology, built through experience, psychological adjustment and that it has nothing to do with the size of his penis or sexual technique.
If he has a problem with that, let him speak up Mother nature.
But, does he really know where your clitoris is?! Did he have a close encounter with him in broad daylight or does he just grope him at night?! Because it’s dark down there and it can easily happen that he loses his compass as you move.
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I’m not saying that you should lie down with your legs spread wide on the kitchen table as soon as the neighbor stops by for the first coffee in the morning, but it is a good idea for your partner to meet your clitoris at least once in broad daylight, just to get to know each other, combine tone and image. Let’s say, while he’s giving you oral sex after that first morning coffee. And when the neighbor goes home, of course.
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Pull out the clitoris from the side, to see it better and try your luck with a new knowledge.
This is the simplest possible. He is lying on his back. Looking at his feet, grab his hips and lower yourself onto his erect cock. Then, extend your legs behind you and lower your torso down until your feet are right next to his head and you’re lying on top of him.
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You look one way, he looks the other. His feet are next to your head and yours are next to his. Now try a light, slow thrust so that you feel every inch of his cock as you slide up and down it. This position also helps to pull back the labia, increasing the friction around the clitoris, which makes it easier to achieve orgasm.
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For another type of clitoral stimulation, slide off him for a moment, look right at his…feet, feel free to fantasize as much as you like and move the head of his cock up and down your clitoris with your hand.
Use your hand or his to continue to manually stimulate the clitoris while his cock is inside you, but pause only briefly before orgasm to let the friction of his cock provoke a stronger orgasm. This is commonly called a bridging maneuver. In this way, a bridge is formed between clitoral stimulation, with which many women reach orgasm, and penetrative orgasm, as usually men achieve the same.
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Women who can achieve a penetrative orgasm usually do so when they are on top of their partner.
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Ask your partner to sit on the bed with their legs stretched out in front of them. Get on top, cowgirl style, allowing his cock to penetrate you. Now lower yourself back as far as you can until your head rests on the bed. Not only does your torso look incredibly attractive in this pose, and your stomach flat as a board, but it’s also much easier to thrust your pelvis against his, providing more of the necessary friction this way.
Another idea – instead of straddling him with your knees, squat down on his cock, touching the bed, floor or any other surface with your feet. Stay leaning forward so you’re doing the full thrusting job. The only way to put this into action is to lift your butt and use your hamstrings.
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This position is dynamic and very sexy. Especially good for challenging him. Start with quick up-and-down motions before changing speed and turning in large, circular motions, keeping your pelvis together throughout.
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Your entire body is in the foreground at all times so your partner gets a chance to admire the full frontal view, watching his cock go in and out of you, which, trust us, is always at the top of the list of things he’d like to do during days. While you, in the meantime, get much-needed clitoral pressure this way.
The front wall of the vagina is particularly sensitive, which is why vaginal, sexual intercourse from behind creates an incredible feeling for a woman.
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This way, you give your partner direct access to your G spot. You put it directly in his sights, serving it on a plate. A real treat for both! Try to lower your back as far as you can, spreading your legs so that his cock has perfect access.
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Feel free to use your hand to further stimulate your clitoris, fantasizing as much as you like. There’s no eye contact, so you can both guilt-free fantasize about anything if it helps you reach orgasm more easily.
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Fantasizing is another effective way to overcome the feelings that prevent you from achieving orgasm and to slide into the orgasm you have been dreaming of for a long time through fantasy.
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