What happens if there is no kiss on the first date: is it good or bad?

There are some elements that can help us assess whether a first date has been a success, although not everyone has the same. For example, for many people, the fact that the conversation doesn’t stop, that there is constant laughter, inside jokes are made or plans are made to see each other again, is what indicates that a date has been good. For other people, what makes the difference is the end of it, was there a kiss?

There are many elements to take into account during a date, especially when we want it to go well. You have to dress appropriately for the occasion, that makes us feel safe and it does not clash with the organized plan; conversation is also very important, having common interests or being able to speak freely even when they are not shared.

Some people They prefer to prepare in advance some things, such as questions that can be asked to avoid awkward silences or possible exits in case the meeting becomes uncomfortable. Thus, all those involved hope that this first meeting is only the beginning of a beautiful love story and one of the first steps towards this is the farewell and how it happens.

Is not the same leave with the promise of a new meeting than doing it in an awkward way. It is not the same to do it with a handshake or with a hug full of affection. Of course, giving a kiss on the cheek does not mean the same as giving a kiss on the lips or not giving it at all, Can a kiss make that big of a difference on a date? If it doesn’t happen, is that a sign that something went wrong?

Each person is different and that is why each one can feel how victory or failure whether the date ends with a kiss or notThe truth is that it is becoming more common to keep an open mind and wait to see how the evening goes to decide whether the farewell will be with a kiss or not, instead of thinking that this is out of place or gives the impression that they are only looking for a passing or physical relationship if they take that step on the first date.

It is important to be aware of the environment before making the decisionit is essential that both parties agree to take the step and, if in doubt, it is best to let the moment pass or directly ask the other person if a kiss is something they would like. In any case, jumping in to the discomfort of the other person is not something that should be contemplated, Consent is key in any situation and more so in these.

According to a survey conducted by the dating app Adopt20% of those questioned preferred not to kiss on the first date, but For 44% of them, this was not so important.. Yes, it was essential for 36% of the people questioned.

Beyond when that kiss is given, which most people prefer to be at goodbye, for a large part of the people who participated in the survey (72% specifically), That first kiss seems essential to them to know if they want to continue getting to know the other person.to make sure that the chemistry between them is there and real and they can continue to enjoy their mutual presence also on a sentimental and physical level and not as a friendship.

That goodbye kiss is understood as a extra way to get informationa physical contact that provides much more data than other types of interaction, for example, if the other person kisses well or not, but that does not mean that it has to be a kiss on the lips. In fact, for 65% of those surveyed, saying goodbye with A kiss on the cheek is more than enough proof that the date has been a complete success.that there is interest and affection on both sides (do not confuse this tender kiss on the cheek with the traditional courtesy greeting so typical of the Spanish).

So, it seems that for many people, leaving the kiss for later is a good sign and gives them the opportunity to get to know each other little by little before trying to move the relationship to a more physical level. Create an intimate atmospherewhere being able to share emotions, feelings and experiences with the other person, is just as important as sharing that other type of intimacy.