Summer love stories are surrounded by an aura of magic that only summer can give.
The heartbeat before going on a date or an evening with friends where you were looking for yourself… He/she contributed to you experiencing moments of lightness of being and rushes of adrenaline where you felt like you were on another planet or at least in ‘another life’.
In short, everything is beautiful, until the moments before departure. In fact, things start to crack and fear creeps into the bones.
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What will happen to this intense love story? What happens next?
We give you four possible scenarios so you know what to expect and what to focus on to still have the best experience.
For the first few days, you may be overwhelmed by all forms of communication. Calls, messages, video calls and sharing photos and videos will be your glue.
Then things will slowly start to change.
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You will both return to your “real” lives, the calls will begin to thin out, the thoughts of each other will thin out, you will return full speed to your routine in which you will have a hard time fitting that summer story made of sea foam.
And so it will end exactly as it began, in an instant.
In this case, the summer story will end in the place where it was born: before the end of the vacation, you will say goodbye because you already know that it will be the only way forward.
It is not simple, on the contrary.
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The hardest part is still being heart-to-heart and having to take such a drastic step.
The most useful aspect, however, is the ability to punctuate and thereby mark a new beginning by entering another routine.
All in all, it could be simpler this way.
Another common option is to drag the story along for months, grasping for random sparks at alternate moments.
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Autumn, winter, spring again until summer where we know that we will return to the same vacation spots and that we could even start again, that is, continue the story where you left off.
Here’s the catch: the year is long—distance is often a big obstacle—and it’s easy for one or both of them to develop misaligned expectations.
This option is the rarest, but still worth considering.
Several variables contribute to this scenario: primarily, the physical distance between the two lovers, the compatibility and desire to be together.
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True love can be triggered even on vacation, and the skill is to recognize it and nurture it as it deserves.
This way it will remain a beautiful summer story that you will remember and retell to your grandchildren.
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