What makes someone sexy? Appearance, personality, charisma? Here’s my take on 11 less obvious qualities that attract us to some people and not others.
TRACEY COX reveals for the British DAILYMAIL 11 qualities of all sexy people – so which ones do you have?
Tracy Cox says sexiness is less about looks and more about attitude and aura.
What makes someone sexy?
Good question! After all, what’s sexy to a person is ‘Are you kidding me?’ to another.
But we all have a subconscious ‘sexy’ radar that automatically tunes to people who have ‘it’. Our looks radar kicks in first—currently scanning for the prettiest person in the crowd—then the sex radar kicks in, looking for subtler (and safer) indicators that someone is worth talking to.
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After all, sexiness is less about looks and more about attitude and aura: being happy with what you have and who you are.
That’s why the main thing that makes someone sexy is this…
If you like sex and you like people, you are probably sexy.
People who enjoy sex are on constant subconscious (and conscious) alert – looking for sexy people and sexy things wherever they are.
When you see someone you like, your eyes let them know you’re attracted to them – even if the wedding ring on your finger prevents you from treating them.
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Being noticed and admired gets people’s attention quickly – and even if they’re not physically attracted to the person giving it, they’ll look again to see if they’re missing something.
A high sex drive is often the secret behind ‘ugly sexy’ appeal. The reason why some people, who don’t fit society’s expectations of how they look, still get a lot of attention.
The hunger and appreciation evident in their eyes is a magical ingredient that does not rely on physical appearance.
It’s contagious – you can’t help but smile and respond to someone who is full of life.
It doesn’t matter what you’re interested in, as long as you throw your arms around and get excited about something.
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As one guy put it, “The girl in the corner whose facial expression doesn’t change and who talks in a monotone isn’t attractive, even if she’s discussing how to give great fellatio.”
“It’s a crazy gesticulating girl who talks a million miles an hour to whoever you want.” Even if she’s debating what color to paint her bathroom.’
The more symmetrical your face and body are, the more sexually attractive you are and the more attention you get.
It’s not brainwashing by society either – even babies seek symmetry.
Mother Nature is far more manipulative than social media: she consistently protects the health of the species by making sure that those from the strongest gene pool (like symmetrical) are seen as the most attractive.
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Although no body is ever truly symmetrical, the appearance of ‘matching’ helps immeasurably.
Women’s bodies are programmed to look 30 percent more symmetrical on the magical high conception day after ovulation.
People with symmetrical bodies tend to lose their virginity much younger and have more sexual partners than their curvy friends.
If you don’t feel sexy, you certainly won’t attract anyone.
People who don’t like their bodies do their best to hide it as much as possible. Their shoulders are hunched, their heads are down, their arms are crossed to hide their stomachs. Sounds attractive, doesn’t it? No.
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No one is completely satisfied with their body, but people who embrace their good parts and don’t get too paranoid about the bad parts exude confidence. Their body language is relaxed, open and attractive, and their self-acceptance gives off a sexy vibe.
The ability to focus solely on the person you’re with, without looking behind them, checking your phone, or being distracted in any way is a dying skill.
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Because of this, when someone’s eyes don’t move from your face, the recipient feels intoxicated with laser-sharp attention. The person who looks you straight in the eye, really listens, calls you by your name, and focuses on what you’re saying wins every time.
Master this and you’ll beat the better-looking competition.
Sex-obsessed creatures that we are, anything that reminds us of sex tends to turn us on.
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A woman with full, glossy, red lips is arousing because her lips mimic what (he imagines anyway) is hopefully happening elsewhere: the vagina also ‘swells’, moistens and darkens in color when she’s excited.
They know who they are and are proud of it. A person who is not afraid to express an opinion even if it is the opposite of everyone else’s opinion may be called stubborn, arrogant or even rude, but there is one thing they will never be labeled – boring.
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Stick to your beliefs and believe in yourself. We all respect and admire people who stand up and fight their own battles.
Have you ever seen someone get up from a sitting position in which they spent some time and walk away with stiff legs? Not really turning you on?
It’s not something you immediately think of when you wonder what makes someone sexy, but flexibility is what makes people appear to “walk youthfully.”
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Fluid movement is associated with physical fitness and good health, which are biologically related to attractiveness.
People who are flexible tend to have better posture which sends a signal of confidence – confidence is another key factor in sexual attractiveness.
When someone tells us that we are handsome, witty or smart, it has an optimal effect the first time it is said.
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Keep talking about it and you’ll not only dilute the compliment, you’ll get the opposite reaction from the one you intended.
Instead of liking you, the person will find you boring.
Never, ever underestimate the power of touch. The person who gives you a really warm hug when you say hello, who puts a worried hand on your arm if you’re upset, shakes your hand tightly and says ‘Congratulations!’, makes warm, sexy gestures that make her seem approachable.
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If you want to connect with someone – right now – there’s no better way to do it than through touch. The briefest, tiniest touch can have an electric effect on how someone feels about you.
If you are stingy in your affection, others assume that you are cold, hard to get to know, uptight. None of the adjectives you want applied to you, right?
There are no surprises here. It may not lead to happiness, but it certainly makes you more sexually attractive.
Why? For starters, financial success boosts self-esteem and confidence, traits that are universally attractive.
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Money usually means that a person is well-dressed, well-groomed, physically healthy and educated. They can do sexy things: like surprise you with first-class tickets to the best party in Ibiza, a reservation at the sexiest, most desirable new restaurant.
Wealth is associated with high social status – and power is the ultimate aphrodisiac for some! Success usually means that a person is ambitious, which is another personality trait that contributes to their attractiveness.
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